mahjong
Posts : 644 Join date : 2008-07-18
| Subject: What is BPD? Thu Aug 28, 2008 1:35 pm | |
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By Ann Appelbaum, M.D. and Frank Yeomans, M.D., Ph.D.
individuals with BPD show great difficulties in controlling ragefulness; they are unusually impulsive, they fall in and out of love suddenly; they tend to idealize other people and then abruptly despise them. A consequence of all this is that they typically look for help from a therapist and then suddenly quit in terrible disappointment and anger.
Underneath all these symptoms, therapists began to see in the borderline condition an inability to tolerate the levels of anxiety, frustration, rejection and loss that most people are able to put up with, an inability to soothe and comfort themselves when they become upset, and an inability to control the impulses toward the expression, through action, of love and hate that most people are able to hold in check. And, furthermore, what most defines BPD is great difficulty in holding on to a stable, consistent sense of one's self: "Who am I?" these people ask. "My life is in chaos; sometimes I feel like I can do anything - I feel so incompetent, helpless and loathsome. I'm a lot of different people instead of being just one person."
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Jewell Admin
Posts : 401 Join date : 2008-07-16
| Subject: Re: What is BPD? Fri Nov 07, 2008 3:41 pm | |
| I know three people with this and it can be hard on the emotions of that person if this is not controlled. | |
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mahjong
Posts : 644 Join date : 2008-07-18
| Subject: Re: What is BPD? Fri Nov 07, 2008 5:08 pm | |
| I have bipolar II and bpd. The symptoms are so similar it is hard to tell which is which. I couldn't make it without my mood stabilizers. I still have flareups and misunderstand ppl but I think my moods are better than they used to be. | |
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